Comments on: They don't make cards for this

By: Elspeth

Elspeth — Sat, 10 Mar 2007 09:04:00 +0000

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My friend had a similar situation (we both have blood clotting issues which can cause a clot between you and the baby and cause miscarriages or baby death) and it is excruciating.

By: Keith

Keith — Mon, 05 Mar 2007 19:21:51 +0000

Hi angel,
I’ve been thinking of you, Henri, Nathan, and Abigail often. I have no words, only love, which is for where I prefer to live these days — “out beyond ideas of right and wrong, there is a field I’ll meet you there.”
Remembering our oneness,
Keith

By: Wendy

Wendy — Sun, 04 Mar 2007 18:44:04 +0000

I am sorry for your loss. I just read your recent post and then realized I must have missed something and then got to this post. Maybe your family can find a way to make a tribute to her, like planting a tree or marking a special spot in your area the will remind you of her.

By: Ruth

Ruth — Thu, 01 Mar 2007 15:16:19 +0000

I followed a link here from Dr. Bacchus as well, and I’m so sorry about your loss. I miscarried a baby several years ago and the memory still brings me to tears. I found it helpful to talk to others who had experienced the same thing. It’s something many women, especially older women, don’t talk about, and I was amazed to find out how many of the women I knew had lost babies before birth.

There’s nothing to say, really, except that I’m sorry.

By: Maria

Maria — Thu, 01 Mar 2007 07:05:28 +0000

Carrie- you don’t know me from Adam, but we have a mutual friend in Rich Bowen, my fiance. He directed me to your post, and I’m weeping right now, having just finished reading it. I’m very sorry for your loss. In the only painful way it can be, this expression of your grief is nothing short of beautiful. You and your family, including Abigail Beatrix, are in my thoughts and prayers.

Many years,
Carie Maria

By: Rich Bowen

Rich Bowen — Thu, 01 Mar 2007 06:48:45 +0000

Hen and Carrie,

I’m so sorry to hear about this. There are simply no words, just an ache in my heart for you. I am so very sorry.

By: Shane Curcuru

Shane Curcuru — Wed, 28 Feb 2007 19:48:59 +0000

Uh, um, I don’t know what to say either. Like Craig, I’ve worked with your husband at the ASF, which is how I found this. But then again, you list yourself as an Apache Wife, so you’re probably not surprised.

Best of luck at moving forward. I’m glad your other little one is doing well so far; hopefully he’s young enough to not really remember the bad parts of all this. My 2 and a half year old wouldn’t understand what’s going on, but I’m sure she’d say something nice if she did.

8-(

By: Reva

Reva — Wed, 28 Feb 2007 12:44:06 +0000

Carrie & Hen,

So sorry hear about your loss. I’ll keep you guys in my prayer’s and ask God to give you guys the strength to get through this.

Reva.

By: Craig McClanahan

Craig McClanahan — Tue, 27 Feb 2007 23:39:50 +0000

Carrie,

I haven’t had the chance to know you, but I’ve met Henri (both face-to-face and virtually) on more than one occasion. I can’t begin to express my sorrow for your loss … I have suffered losses, but nothing quite like this (my “children” are 27 and 24 and I love them very much, in spite of the occasional agony caused by growing up crises :-).

You and Henri will be in the hearts and prayers of my wife Ruth and I … in the mean time, I can only hope that you can hug and draw strength from each other, and that God will have an opportunity to help you together to heal your pain — even when no one can replace the loss.

Craig

By: Jeanne B.

Jeanne B. — Tue, 27 Feb 2007 21:57:11 +0000

Carrie, my heart goes out to you and your family. I’m so very sorry for your loss.